Play Bonobo Network Retreat

May 23-26, 2025 • Tuolumne, CA

The Bonobo Network Retreat is an unforgettable immersive experience.

It’s the perfect blend of vibrant festival energy, deep community bonding, exhilarating play, serene outdoor relaxation, and personal introspection—all in a breathtaking setting. Whether you’re here to meet kindred spirits, dance all night, or embrace the thrill of new experiences, PLAY! is where it all unfolds against a landscape of connection, exploration, learning, and support.

People enjoying a lively outdoor event, with a woman excitedly hugging someone while others socialize around them.

400 new friends 12 shared meals 4 days 3 nights 3 sexy play spaces 1 hell of a good time

Sensual Playshops  •  Pool Parties  •  EPIC ENTERTAINMENT  •  Pure Magic
  • 4 men having a group discussion in foreground with a group of 20 women having a discussion in the background

    Workshops & Activities

    From the silly to the serious (to the sexy!) our workshops and activities will foster connection between members and learning about how to suffuse our lives and relationships with more pleasure and play.

  • queer woman in gray dress behind dj booth

    Music & Entertainment

    Our lineup of performers, DJs, and live instrumentalists are sure to surprise and delight you! Join the main show Saturday night when we send in the clowns, or cuddle up in your onesie during the Sunday brunch concert.

  • naked people sliding on a tarp

    Play & Connect

    When we talk about play, we don’t just mean it euphemistically. Together, we can be our silliest, most free, most expressed, most consensual selves! Ride the zip line, dance all night, or occupy yourself with naughtier activities….

A woman with a black fascinator hat, wearing elaborate jewelry, faces a man with his back to the camera. The woman has her tongue out in a playful manner.
Scenic view of a wooden cabin by a fenced deck overlooking a natural landscape with trees and mountains under a cloudy sky.
Two people enjoying an outdoor event; one holds a decorative fan and the other wears a red dress, laughing and dancing.
Man and woman performing an acrobatic lift outdoors, surrounded by trees and sunlight.
A group of people at an outdoor event under a colorful canopy. A woman wearing a black hat is playfully using a flogger on a person who is bent over, while two others are seated on a wooden bench watching.

Ready to join us?